Cheers for Fears

“4-10”—the pickleball score in our opponents’ favor during a fun tournament. We won despite the wide difference. “It’s a mental game, Connie,” coached my partner, who playfully taunted  the other team, and celebrated each and every winning point we make.  “9-2”—the score in our favor during practice games. Another player in the stands calling out “13-9” … Continue reading Cheers for Fears

A New Year, A New Self (Again?)

Again! Try harder. Be better. Why is being good so easy for other people, but a struggle to many.   The sooner we accept people are different in terms of “good factor,” the sooner we can accept ourselves, and succeed in becoming good(er). It is not easy to be good.  And some just need more effort … Continue reading A New Year, A New Self (Again?)

See God-Do Good- Teach God: Faith Works

Our thoughts, alone, do not matter. It’s our actions which truly reveal what we believe. But when those who believe in Jesus claim that they are not judged by their actions, what does that mean?  It means that the guarantee of eternal life rests not on our good works but the work that Jesus did … Continue reading See God-Do Good- Teach God: Faith Works

GREET EXPECTATIONS (Great? Ninang?) 😊

GREET EXPECTATIONS!One of the greatest deterrent to happiness is to constantly think of the expectations of others; and make them expectations of ourselves. When we allow society to define us and set our direction in life, we set ourselves up for “great expectations” that cannot be met; not for a sustained period anyway.  I have … Continue reading GREET EXPECTATIONS (Great? Ninang?) 😊

CHANGE ME

Recently, a move by some senators to call for the resignation of  the Department of Health Secretary has brought mixed feelings to different people.  Although the quality, quantity, and timeliness of efforts and programs of government leave room for improvement,  as my colleague said, the timing seems off.  Thus the motive and appropriateness are questioned. … Continue reading CHANGE ME